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Vilken biograffilm blev din allra första? 
Jag tror det var Tillbaka till landet ingenstans, såg den med min moster. Var kanske... Nej, jag minns inte hur gammal jag var. Minns bara att jag satt på en bilstol.

Topp fem favoritfilmer: 
Friends with benefits, Alice i Underlandet (tecknade), Titanic, Pearl Harbor och Girl, Interrupted.

Topp fem regissörer:
Tim Burton, annars vet jag inte. Är så dålig på att reflektera över sådant. Bör bli bättre. 

Din absolut bästa biografupplevelse?
Nej. Denna kan jag inte svara på. För jag har inget svar. Kan inte komma på någon upplevelse som har stuckit ut mer än någon annan, helt ärligt. Jag som älskar bio.

Topp fem manliga skådespelare:
Hayden Christensen kommer jag för alltid vara kär i, sen har vi Ian Somerhalder som har de vackraste isblåa ögonen någonsin, Leonardo DiCaprio för jag är en tönt. Hm... Två till. Vad sägs som Johnny Depp och Alexander Skarsgård?

Topp fem kvinnliga skådespelare:
Natalie Portman, Angelina Jolie, Dakota Fanning, Jennifer Lawrence för hennes otroliga charm, och även Nina Dobrev tycker jag om. 

En favoritfilm från Disney?
Oliver och gänget kommer för alltid ha sin charm för mig.

Favoritsoundtrack från en film?
Är för dåligt på sådant här. Missar alltid sådant, har en tendens att lyssna igenom tv-seriers olika soundtrack istället, och isf älskar jag allt med The Vampire Diaries.

Tre filmer du verkligen ser fram emot att se:
Känn ingen sorg, The Host och Warm Bodies.

Om du skulle göra en film, hur skulle den se ut då?
Kärlek, tragedi. Orden skulle vara viktiga. Vad som sägs, varje liten rörelse. 
Det skulle vara betydelse över det hela. Jag skulle vilja att man skulle påverkas, och minnas. Ingen action, absolut ingen action. Inte en komedi heller.

You will fall in love with someone who’s cold and always seemingly pushing you away. When all is said and done, they will be forever known as the one person you couldn’t get to love you. Unfortunately, it will hurt and sting worse than the good ones, the ones that chopped up your meat for you and picked out an eyelash from your eye and were nice to your mother, because love often feels like a game we need to win. And when we lose, when we realize we couldn’t get what we ultimately desired from a person, it makes us feel like a failure and erases all the memories of those who loved us in the past. It’s a permanent smudge on your love resume.

You will fall in love with someone for one night and one night only. They’ll come to you when you need them and be gone in the morning when you don’t. At first, this will make you feel empty and you’ll try to convince yourself that you could’ve loved this person for longer than a night, but you can’t. Some people are just meant to make cameo appearances, some are destined to be a pithy footnote. That’s okay though. Not every person we love has to stick around. Sometimes it’s better to leave while you’re still ahead. Sometimes it’s better to leave before you get unloved.

You will fall in love with the old couple down the street because to you they represent the impossible: a stable, long-lasting love. You’re trying to get someone to like you for more than ten minutes. A monogamous “never get sick of ya” love seems unfathomable. “What’s your secret, sir? Do you just say yes a lot?”

You will fall in love with smells, the good and the bad kind. You will want to wear your lovers shirt because it makes you feel close to them and you’re okay with being that PSYCHO who is legitimately sniffing their shirt in public. You will fall in love with sweat, certain perfumes, the smell of the season in which you fell in love. This particular love smells like fall. It smells like Halloween and a roaring fire and leaves and fog and mist and candy and food and family and whiskey and sex and the lint that collects on sweaters. When it ends, if it ends, you will never experience another fall without thinking of him, her, it. The memories will stick to the ground like a mound of leaves and will only dissipate when the weather drops.

You will fall in love with your friends. Deep, passionate love. You will create a second family with them, a kind of tribe that makes you feel less vulnerable. Sometimes our families can’t love us all the time. Sometimes we’re born into families who don’t know how to love us properly. They do as much as they can but the rest is up to our friends. They can love you all the time, without judgement. At least the good ones can.

This is where I’m supposed to tell you that you will fall in love with The One, a person who isn’t too cold or too nice. Their “O” face is perfectly fine and they’re not afraid to show how much they love you. This person is supposed to wait for us at the end of the twentysomething road as some kind of reward for all the heartache and loneliness. We deserve them. We’ve earned this kind of love.

So fine. You’re going to fall in love with The One. You’re going to fall in love with someone who will make sense beyond college or a job or a particular season. They’ll make sense forever and won’t ever want to leave you behind. I’m telling you this not because it’s true but because it NEEDS to be true. Everyone is entitled to this kind of love, so why not? Have it. It’s yours. Blow out the candles on your 30th birthday, holding their hand, and let out an exhale that’s been waiting for ten years. Do it. Now."

- Ryan O’Connell, The Types of People You Will Fall in Love With In Your 20’s